Trust.

trust - the trait of believing in the honesty and reliability of others

"It takes years years to build, and a few seconds to destroy"

Trusting, and being trusted. It happens to all of us we all trust in someone, and maybe we are all trusted by atleast someone.. But trust can hurt. You can be the one being hurt or the one doing the hurting. And I'm sure well all of done both of those too. Sometimes it's by mistake, and maybe even sometimes on purpose, but no matter what it's still wrong. Like Bob Marley said
"The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for."
In my life I have found a handful of people worth suffering for. My family. The fact is they have hurt me, and I have hurt them. But your family is always gonna love you no matter what, and your gonna love them. Your family is the one's who will unintentionally hurt you. It's your friends you've gotta watch out for. In high school many kids live off drama. It's the fuel that keeps them going and it's sickening. I'm not saying that I've never done this because I have. I've listened too it and participated in it, and it's not right. It hurts everyone and including yourself. We have all learned that it's wrong to judge people, and in reality none of us want to be judged either. Have you ever noticed that the people who no one judges are the ones not judging anyone else?? I have, and I am often jealous of them. We need to learn to just do our own thing. Dress how we want, act how we want, do what we want, and not care what other people think. We have to learn to rely on ourselves and realize that we don't need to share our secrets, we can but we can also deal with it on our own. We need to learn that if someone trust you with a secret... Keep it that way. It is not something you should be sharing because it's not yours to share. If that person wants others to know, they will tell them. But it can be hard to keep a secret, it's how most of us our. We can't keep things inside we have an itch to tell someone, but we have to learn to control that sensation to scratch! Often times we trade gossip for popularity, but to me it's not worth it. I don't want to be known as the girl with all the dirt, I want to be that girl that anyone can come to for anything. Someone reliable for other people that they know there secret is safe with. I wanna be someone who is there when you need a friend. I don't want to fall in the horrible lies of gossip (including spreading or listening.) I wanna be a sweet girl, one you will want to confide and trust in. I want to say sorry when it is necessary, and always forgive. When I look back on my life from this point on I don't want there to be any regrets. I want to take a risk and trust, and I want to be trusted.