hate is safer then love

hate is much easier then love, and it shouldnt be that way. but for alot of people thats the way it is. you see people are human, and we make mistakes. maybe one of our biggest mistakes is seeing the bad in people and forgetting that they're human too. and just like you they arent perfect. but really we should love people for mistakes, because if they make a mistake it means two things. they are human, and they are trying. we should commend people for mistakes. mistakes arent a bad thing... yeah they hurt people, but they give people an opportunity to grow. everytime i make a mistake or i see someone else make a mistake i grow from it. i grow from trying to fix my mistake because that betters me as a person, and maybe it even betters those around me. fixing it is never easy.. sometimes its hard for people to forgive, and for you to forgive yourself. but if you just get past it, if you hold it together and stay strong. you will just come out that much better of a person. because what really matters is your effort not your mistake. and sometimes i think we all forget to look at that. because the good things in life arent just handed to us, you have to get them yourself. and all along the way your gonna mess up and so are people who you care about, you just have to learn to see past it. find the true intentions of their heart. if there worth it... push through it with them. hate is safer then love. because hate is easy, and love can hurt. but is that any reason not to love?